Here's the thing ladies, just because there's a pole, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO DANCE ON IT! Please leave that to the professionals! This is coming from a dude, you don't all look cute trying to pretend that you're a stripper…most of the time you're uncoordinated and it turns us off. Peep the below as the perfect example!

 

 

 

(sometimes that's the "what" you should turn down for)