Everyone has been there: you simp over someone who has you head over heels and then suddenly...the vanish. You've been ghosted yet again!
If you're a chronic ghostee there's a few things you should be on the look out for that might indicate someone is about to up and leave.
- They seem generally uninterested in you. They could be distant during conversations, maybe always checking their phone, or not answering any of your texts or calls.
- They avoid meeting up with you. They might make plans with you cancel last minute to keep you hanging on. Even worse, if they don't make a plan to reschedule then its probably time to move on.
- Their communication with you seems half-hearted. If it seems like they're uninterested or maybe answering with one word, they could be planning on ditching the relationship sometime soon.
- They're distant on social media. If they're keeping in contact with you over the phone or through text but have stopped interacting with you, your family, or friends online, thats a major red flag.
- The tone in conversation starts to change. If it sounds like they're getting more aggressive or have short answers that could be a sign that you're about to get ghosted.